feat(kds): response backoff

[jakubdyszkiewicz]

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Response backoff is a way to rate limit clients from sending data too often.
Let's say we have a Zone CP that has many constant changes to Dataplane objects. With the default 1s KUMA_MULTIZONE_ZONE_KDS_REFRESH_INTERVAL we will aggregate changes every 1s and send this to global. However, Global CP may want to slow down Zone CP from changing resources too often.

The communication looks like this
Global CP sends DeltaDiscoveryRequest
Zone CP sends DeltaDiscoveryResponse with DP list
Global CP saves DPPs and sends ACK (DeltaDiscoveryRequest)
Zone CP sends DeltaDiscoveryResponse with DP list
Global CP saves DPPs and sends ACK...

If Global CP waits to send ACK after it saves DPPs, Zone CP won't send a new list. Instead, it will aggregate changes over time.

This is a setting for all resources, NOT per resource type because we have one loop of DeltaDiscoveryResponse. We don't wait for the initial DeltaDiscoveryResponse because when Zone CP connects first, it sends a request for every resource type.

The default is set to 0 so we won't change the current behavior.

• Link to relevant issue as well as docs and UI issues --
• This will not break child repos: it doesn't hardcode values (.e.g "kumahq" as a image registry) and it will work on Windows, system specific functions like syscall.Mkfifo have equivalent implementation on the other OS --
• Tests (Unit test, E2E tests, manual test on universal and k8s) -- tested manually, not sure how to test it well in e2e tests.
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