Add featureDetectOverride configration of calico

[lou-lan]

What type of PR is this?

/kind feature

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Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #8992

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Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?:

[floryut]

@lou-lan Thank you for the added feature
/ok-to-test

[yankay]

/ok-to-test
/lgtm

it's an important config to solve the issue.

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[yankay]

Discussion:

Recommand to the set the defaul value calico_feature_detect_override: "ChecksumOffloadBroken=true" to Fixes #8992.

The solution is used by:

• Rancher: https://github.com/rancher/rke2-charts/blob/main-source/packages/rke2-calico/generated-changes/patch/values.yaml.patch#L55
• Azure: https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/cluster-api-provider-azure/blob/main/templates/addons/calico/patches/calico-node.yaml

So, I suggest setting the default value to the ChecksumOffloadBroken=true, to disable the VLAN offload by default, so the calico can be worked in most cases.

And if the user wants to use VLAN offload, he can change the configuration.

[yankay]

/lgtm