[release-1.16] explicitly set EXP_ASO_API=true for controller-manager

[k8s-infra-cherrypick-robot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #5093

/assign nojnhuh

Fixed a bug preventing the ASOAPI feature flag from being enabled by default.

[jackfrancis]

/lgtm
/approve

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 51.19%. Comparing base (b750c97) to head (0e174cf).
Report is 4 commits behind head on release-1.16.

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[nojnhuh]

/kind bug

[nojnhuh]

/retest