Add temporary natve mode workarounds

* Copy custom io.netty classes from Apache Arrow and modify to work with the Quarkus Netty version.
  https://github.com/apache/arrow/tree/main/java/memory/memory-netty/src/main/java/io/netty/buffer

* Add RunReachabilityHandlersConcurrently native build arg due to oracle/graal#6904

bigquery/runtime/src/main/java/io/netty/buffer/LargeBuffer.java

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+/*
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+
+package io.netty.buffer;
+
+/**
+ * A MutableWrappedByteBuf that also maintains a metric of the number of huge buffer bytes and
+ * counts.
+ */
+public class LargeBuffer extends MutableWrappedByteBuf {
+
+    public LargeBuffer(ByteBuf buffer) {
+        super(buffer);
+    }
+
+    @Override
+    public ByteBuf copy(int index, int length) {
+        return new LargeBuffer(buffer.copy(index, length));
+    }
+}