Update oneccl-binding.patch

[liu-shaojun]

Description

1. Why the change?

Update oneccl-binding.patch to use environment variable IPEX_LLM_CCL_ENABLE_NATIVE_WAIT to decide whether to use stream.get_native().wait();

2. User API changes

3. Summary of the change

4. How to test?

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5. New dependencies

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  - Dependency2
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[gc-fu]

LGTM