Support vpm and resampler module of minicpm-v on NPU

[plusbang]

Description

Update minicpm-v usage on NPU.

2. User API changes

• No need to specify torch_dtype=torch.float32 and modules_to_not_convert=['vpm', 'resampler']
• lm_head of minicpm_v_2_6 could run on NPU by default

3. Summary of the change

• replace conv2d and layernorm with MinicpmVPatchEmbedding and MinicpmVLayerNorm
• pad mlp.fc2 and replace forward function to avoid compile error
• pad lm_head and replace forward function to avoid compile error
• port attention / multi-head-attention / resampler forward functions
• update example script

4. How to test?

• Application test
  https://github.com/analytics-zoo/nano/issues/1724#issuecomment-2467282958

[rnwang04]

others LGTM

[jason-dai]

Will this impact accuracy for channel-wise?

[plusbang]

Will this impact accuracy for channel-wise?

The original weight shape is [151666, 3584] and pad it to [152064, 3584], each row has no change. I think this don't influence CW : )