feat(outputs.postgresql): Allow configuration of startup error handling

[srebhan]

Summary

This PR allows to define the behavior for startup errors of the postgresql output plugin. Doing so you can make Telegraf error out on startup errors (default), to retry connecting to the server or to ignore the output...

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Related issues

resolves #14365

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