Fix gaussdb mysql scaling up issue

[niuzhenguo]

This takes BACKING UP status nodes into account when checking
sclaing up operation.

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fixes #xxx

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PR Checklist

• Tests added/passed.
• Documentation updated.
• Schema updated.

Acceptance Steps Performed

make testacc TEST='./huaweicloud' TESTARGS='-run=TestAccSomethingV0_basic'
...
=== RUN   TestAccSomethingV0_basic
--- PASS: TestAccSomethingV0_basic (70.75s)
PASS
ok      github.com/huaweicloud/terraform-provider-huaweicloud/huaweicloud       70.796s