add network boot retry logic

[willemolding]

PR summary

Tiny fix. Instead of panic!-ing when the conductor starts and cannot spawn a worker (because the network is unavailable for example) it will keep retrying every 3 seconds until it works.

testing/benchmarking notes

Tricky to test but I manually confirmed that the conductor built with the following works as expected

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