Poc add failure store

[gmarouli]

This PR is a draft alternative of elastic#103518 given that this refactoring is accepted.

We believe that this refactoring, makes the option to add the failure store to the current IndicesOptions a possibility.

• The new builders allow us to (temporarily) rebuild IndicesOptions with the failure store without having to extend the boolean factory methods.
• Using the builders means that the default option of not including the failure store indices is applied everywhere.
• It will make adding this to search easier because there are a lot of request rewrites that we need to wire the DataStreamOptions while like this we can rely on the existing infrastructure.

I am starting to see potential here.