fix: windows path replacements

[mshanemc]

What does this PR do?

smarter matching of file paths for replacements on windows

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

forcedotcom/cli#1885
@W-12398244@

Release Notes

Metadata string replacements were working inconsistently on windows depending on what shell you used. Special thanks to micha79x for a love repro/repo and doing most of the detective work on this one.

[WillieRuemmele]

QA Notes

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on windows 11 command prompt
in the users reproduction repo 🏆

before:

C:\Users\willi\projects\sfdx-replacement-issue>SET
ALLUSERSPROFILE=C:\ProgramData
...
SF_APPLY_REPLACEMENTS_ON_CONVERT=true

C:\Users\willi\projects\sfdx-replacement-issue> sfdx force:source:convert --outputdir mdapiOut --sourcepath force-app
Warning: The "force source convert" command has been deprecated. Use "project convert source" instead.
Warning: The "--outputdir" flag has been deprecated. Use "--output-dir | -d" instead.
Warning: The "--sourcepath" flag has been deprecated. Use "--source-dir | -p" instead.
Source was successfully converted to Metadata API format and written to the location: C:\Users\willi\projects\sfdx-replacement-issue\mdapiOut

<this should have error'd>

AFTER: ✅

C:\Users\willi\projects\sfdx-replacement-issue>SET
ALLUSERSPROFILE=C:\ProgramData
...
SF_APPLY_REPLACEMENTS_ON_CONVERT=true

and linking SDR through PDR

C:\Users\willi\projects\sfdx-replacement-issue>node ../plugin-deploy-retrieve/bin/dev force:source:convert --outputdir mdapiOut --sourcepath force-app
Warning: The "force source convert" command has been deprecated. Use "project convert source" instead.
Warning: The "--outputdir" flag has been deprecated. Use "--output-dir | -d" instead.
Warning: The "--sourcepath" flag has been deprecated. Use "--source-dir | -p" instead.
Error (1): The file "replacementFiles/latest-api-version.txt" specified in the "replacements" property of sfdx-project.json could not be read.

✅ : on the with-glob-property branch, it will error correctly, confirmed, and with local changes, continues to error