feat(deps): update to graphsync v0.13.0 with 2.0 protocol

[hannahhoward]

Proposed Changes

This PR updates go-graphsync and go-data-transfer. From the standpoint of Lotus, it's very small. However, the 0.13.0 version of go-graphsync includes significant changes. You can see them in go-graphsync's CHANGELOG here: https://github.com/ipfs/go-graphsync/blob/main/CHANGELOG.md

The only changes in Lotus other than go.mod updates are that GraphSync has a new ID type for Requests -- they are now UUIDs. I made a small change to the MinerTransferDiagnostics API, which I'm pretty sure no one but me knows about or uses anyway :)

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #8273 (49742f8) into master (c192637) will decrease coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 0.00%.

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chain/stmgr/call.go	71.51% <0.00%> (-3.64%)	⬇️
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chain/consensus/filcns/filecoin.go	52.17% <0.00%> (-0.44%)	⬇️
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