Unify usage of USE_HERMES flag (#41625)

Summary:

To tell React Native whether we are building with hermes or not on iOS, we were using 2 different build time flags:
- USE_HERMES
- RCT_USE_HERMES

The first was widely used by the OSS use case, while the latter was set internally.
Worse than that, their default values were the opposite and we were never setting the RCT_USE_HERMES explicitly with Cocoapods, while there was some piece of code that was trying to "smartly" detect whether Hermes was included or not.

This change unifies the behavior, removing the "smartness" in favor od a declarative approach.

## Changelog:
[Internal] - Unify the USE_HERMES flags

Differential Revision: D51549284

packages/react-native/React-Core.podspec

@@ -22,6 +22,7 @@ socket_rocket_version = '0.7.0'
 boost_compiler_flags = '-Wno-documentation'
 
 use_hermes = ENV['USE_HERMES'] == nil || ENV['USE_HERMES'] == '1'
+use_hermes_flag = use_hermes ? "-DUSE_HERMES=1" : ""
 
 header_subspecs = {
   'CoreModulesHeaders'          => 'React/CoreModules/**/*.h',
@@ -63,7 +64,7 @@ Pod::Spec.new do |s|
   s.platforms              = min_supported_versions
   s.source                 = source
   s.resource_bundle        = { "RCTI18nStrings" => ["React/I18n/strings/*.lproj"]}
-  s.compiler_flags         = folly_compiler_flags + ' ' + boost_compiler_flags
+  s.compiler_flags         = folly_compiler_flags + ' ' + boost_compiler_flags + ' ' + use_hermes_flag
   s.header_dir             = "React"
   s.framework              = "JavaScriptCore"
   s.pod_target_xcconfig    = {

packages/react-native/React/CxxBridge/RCTCxxBridge.mm

@@ -41,15 +41,15 @@
 #import <jsireact/JSIExecutor.h>
 #import <reactperflogger/BridgeNativeModulePerfLogger.h>
 
-#ifndef RCT_USE_HERMES
+#ifndef USE_HERMES
 #if __has_include(<reacthermes/HermesExecutorFactory.h>)
-#define RCT_USE_HERMES 1
+#define USE_HERMES 1
 #else
-#define RCT_USE_HERMES 0
+#define USE_HERMES 0
 #endif
 #endif
 
-#if RCT_USE_HERMES
+#if USE_HERMES
 #import <reacthermes/HermesExecutorFactory.h>
 #else
 #import "JSCExecutorFactory.h"
@@ -423,7 +423,7 @@ - (void)start
     }
     if (!executorFactory) {
       auto installBindings = RCTJSIExecutorRuntimeInstaller(nullptr);
-#if RCT_USE_HERMES
+#if USE_HERMES
       executorFactory = std::make_shared<HermesExecutorFactory>(installBindings);
 #else
       executorFactory = std::make_shared<JSCExecutorFactory>(installBindings);