clang-tidy: respect '-Wno-builtin-macro-redefined' with c++20 (#37408)

Previously, `redefining builtin macro
[clang-diagnostic-builtin-macro-redefined,-warnings-as-errors]` was
reported
despite the existence of the `-Wno-builtin-macro-redefined` in the
compiler argument.
This is a known issue for older version of clang as in
* llvm/llvm-project#56709
* erenon/bazel_clang_tidy#29

The workaround discussed was to explicitly add
`-clang-diagnostic-builtin-macro-redefined`
in the checks of clang-tidy, which can be removed after we upgrade to
LLVM 17.

part of #28566 

Signed-off-by: Takeshi Yoneda <[email protected]>

.clang-tidy

@@ -1,6 +1,7 @@
 Checks: >
   -clang-analyzer-core.NonNullParamChecker,
   -clang-analyzer-optin.cplusplus.UninitializedObject,
+  -clang-diagnostic-builtin-macro-redefined,
   abseil-duration-*,
   abseil-faster-strsplit-delimiter,
   abseil-no-namespace,