[8.16] Surface config parsing error under EA managed mode (backport #14574)

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Motivation/summary

By wrapping reloader errors in a way that EA manager understands (i.e. in a MultiError of UnitError), newRunner initialization errors, including config parsing errors, will be surfaced and logged.

Checklist

- [ ] Update CHANGELOG.asciidoc I expect this to go into 8.17 first, then 8.16, but there may be uncertainty around this. We can add changelog before the release.

• Documentation has been updated

How to test these changes

Start apm-server in EA managed mode (e.g. on ESS), pass in an invalid integration policy, e.g. setting apm-server.rum.response_headers to a string instead of a list. Check that in fleet UI that EA input unit has failed. Check that an error is logged.

Related issues

Fixes #14560

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #14574 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   NOTICE.txt
	modified:   internal/beatcmd/beat_test.go
	modified:   internal/beatcmd/reloader.go
	modified:   internal/beatcmd/reloader_test.go

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	both modified:   go.mod
	both modified:   go.sum

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This pull request has not been merged yet. Could you please review and merge it @carsonip? 🙏