Speed up lsof on macOS

[FinnChen]

What it does

Theia may spawn too many lsof processes on macOS. This PR will speed up lsof by add more options.

VSCode also handled this issue. microsoft/vscode#78438

How to test

• Run Theia on macOS.
• Open terminal and run long running tasks.
• Watch the processes.

Review checklist

• As an author, I have thoroughly tested my changes and carefully followed the review guidelines

Reminder for reviewers

• As a reviewer, I agree to behave in accordance with the review guidelines

[vince-fugnitto]

Thank you for your contribution 👍

In order to accept your changes please be sure to sure to sign the eclipse contributor agreement (eca) with the same email as your authorship.

I confirmed that the email [email protected] is not found when using the ECA look up tool.

[FinnChen]

Thank you for your contribution 👍

In order to accept your changes please be sure to sure to sign the eclipse contributor agreement (eca) with the same email as your authorship.

I confirmed that the email [email protected] is not found when using the ECA look up tool.

I repushed the code with my signed email.

[vince-fugnitto]

The changes look good to me 👍
The updates are aligned with work vscode did in the past to avoid unnecessary work by lsof (microsoft/vscode@c7e72d7 amd microsoft/vscode@2b20162);