Upgrade to lit 3.0

[jorg-vr]

This pull request replaces #5039

I took a different approach to support lit decorators:
compile using ts-loader (which uses the typescript compiler)

I also did some partially related changes:

• update typescript version to 5.2.2
• fix a d3 typing error picked up by ts5.2
• removed @babel/preset-typescript as it is no longer required
• reviewed and removed a lot of babel plugins that are included in @babel/presets-env
• moved types to production dependencies as they are required for build
• fixed some imports from the more generic library (otherwise production build was broken)
• only support typescript format for own StateProperty decorator (otherwise production build was broken)

Note

We still have @babel/plugin-transform-runtime which "is typically used only in development".

Also:

danger
When this plugin is enabled, the useBuiltIns option in @babel/preset-env must not be set. Otherwise, this plugin may not able to completely sandbox the environment.

And we have useBuiltIns: "entry". Maybe something to look into in the future, but too unrelated to fix here.

Closes #5039
Closes #4960