updated grpc config to use DialContext (open-telemetry#11575)

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#### Description

This is related open-telemetry#11537 and [this grpc
issue](grpc/grpc-go#7779), to reiterate there
is a bug in the grpc-go NewClient that makes the way the hostname is
resolved incompatible with the way proxy setting are applied. Due to
this domain based NO_PROXY setting do not work for grpc connections.
They are working on a fix in the grpc library but until then it seems
like it might be a good idea to revert to using DialContext instead of
NewClient.

If there's a workaround for this that anyone is aware of that could be
suitable as well, the most clear one of using passthrough doesn't work
since we sanitize the endpoint.

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#### Link to tracking issue
Fixes open-telemetry#11537 

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#### Testing

I added some logging where the proxy setting are evaluated to show the
behavior.

**DialContext**
______
InMatch
host :  otel*******</DOMAIN-NAME/>
m.host :  </DOMAIN-NAME/> 
hasSuffix :  true
m.matchHost :  true
______

**NewClient**
______
InMatch
host :  10.*.*.*.*
m.host :  </DOMAIN-NAME/> 
hasSuffix :  false
m.matchHost :  false
______

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Co-authored-by: Yang Song <[email protected]>

.chloggen/configgrpc-client-update.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,25 @@
+# Use this changelog template to create an entry for release notes.
+
+# One of 'breaking', 'deprecation', 'new_component', 'enhancement', 'bug_fix'
+change_type: bug_fix
+
+# The name of the component, or a single word describing the area of concern, (e.g. otlpreceiver)
+component: config/configgrpc
+
+# A brief description of the change.  Surround your text with quotes ("") if it needs to start with a backtick (`).
+note: Patch for bug in the grpc-go NewClient that makes the way the hostname is resolved incompatible with the way proxy setting are applied.
+
+# One or more tracking issues or pull requests related to the change
+issues: [11537]
+
+# (Optional) One or more lines of additional information to render under the primary note.
+# These lines will be padded with 2 spaces and then inserted directly into the document.
+# Use pipe (|) for multiline entries.
+subtext:
+
+# Optional: The change log or logs in which this entry should be included.
+# e.g. '[user]' or '[user, api]'
+# Include 'user' if the change is relevant to end users.
+# Include 'api' if there is a change to a library API.
+# Default: '[user]'
+change_logs: []

config/configgrpc/configgrpc.go

@@ -261,7 +261,8 @@ func (gcs *ClientConfig) ToClientConn(
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, err
 	}
-	return grpc.NewClient(gcs.sanitizedEndpoint(), grpcOpts...)
+	//nolint:staticcheck //SA1019 see https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-collector/pull/11575
+	return grpc.DialContext(ctx, gcs.sanitizedEndpoint(), grpcOpts...)
 }
 
 func (gcs *ClientConfig) getGrpcDialOptions(