Fix groupable node partial parsing, raise DbtReferenceError in RuntimeRefResolver

[MichelleArk]

resolves #7437

Description

Currently, modifying a private node's "group" property does not schedule its referencing nodes for re-parsing. This can lead to a scenario where a node that should not be ref-able because of its access and group settings is refable during execution. This change fixes the partial parsing issue, and raises DbtReferenceError during execution (RuntimeRefResolver) out of an abundance of caution.

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The backport to 1.5.latest failed:

The process '/usr/bin/git' failed with exit code 1

To backport manually, run these commands in your terminal:

# Fetch latest updates from GitHub
git fetch
# Create a new working tree
git worktree add .worktrees/backport-1.5.latest 1.5.latest
# Navigate to the new working tree
cd .worktrees/backport-1.5.latest
# Create a new branch
git switch --create backport-7438-to-1.5.latest
# Cherry-pick the merged commit of this pull request and resolve the conflicts
git cherry-pick -x --mainline 1 9874f9e00417aba05273417d2a31371badd15bb5
# Push it to GitHub
git push --set-upstream origin backport-7438-to-1.5.latest
# Go back to the original working tree
cd ../..
# Delete the working tree
git worktree remove .worktrees/backport-1.5.latest

Then, create a pull request where the base branch is 1.5.latest and the compare/head branch is backport-7438-to-1.5.latest.