Csandman/small improvements

[csandman]

• Switch ban-ts-comment rule from off to warn
• Add onFocus and onBlur handlers from a wrapping FormControl
• Prevent selection of the text in the Placeholder component
• Prevent a disabled option component from changing styles on click
• Remove undefined option from TagVariant type and move that logic into the useChakraSelectProps hook
• Be more explicit about exporting types from the package
• Replace the MultiValue components with Box and chakra.span to fix TS errors
• Replace the ClearIndicator component with Box to fix TS errors
• Change indicators to be more like the original react-select and allow custom children