release-24.1: kv: auto-step read sequence on savepoint rollback

[blathers-crl]

Backport 1/1 commits from #121778 on behalf of @nvanbenschoten.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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Fixes #121752.
Fixes #121748.

This commit fixes the txnSeqNumAllocator to conditionally (based on the stepping mode) auto-step the transaction's read sequence number to the write sequence number on savepoint rollbacks.

The commit also adds in an assertion into the txnSeqNumAllocator that the current read sequence is never part of a batch's ignored sequence number list. This helps us detect the cases that were leading to assertion errors in #121752 much faster.

Release note: None

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Release justification: avoids assertion failures.

[blathers-crl]

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[nvanbenschoten]

Closing this backport and attaching the commit to #121710 instead.