release-23.1: metrics: refactor histogram bucket generation and testing

[jmcarp]

Backport 1/1 commits from #107388.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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This commit refactors histogram bucketing for legibility and composibility. It also introduces a data-driven test for histogram bucket generation.

This refactor should make it easier to add additional metric categories, distributions, and bucket types.

Part of #97144.

Release note: None

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Release justification: low-risk, test-only change. Unblocks backport of #104302.

[blathers-crl]

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[jmcarp]

For context, I would like to backport this patch so that I can then backport native histogram support, which we're expecting to help with resource use for the monitoring stack. I checked with @ericharmeling, and I believe both this patch and the next one I want to backport are low-risk. This patch is a refactor that shouldn't have any effect on behavior, and the native histograms patch adds support for a new histogram format that will be gated by an environment flag.