sqlccl: deflake TestGCTenantJobWaitsForProtectedTimestamps

[knz]

Fixes #94808

The tenant server must be shut down before the tenant record is removed; otherwise the tenant's SQL server will self-terminate by calling Stop() on its stopper, which in this case was shared with the parent cluster.

Release note: None

[cockroach-teamcity]

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[arulajmani]

Good find!

Should we add backport labels as well?

Reviewed 1 of 1 files at r1, all commit messages.
Reviewable status: complete! 1 of 0 LGTMs obtained (waiting on @adityamaru and @DrewKimball)

[knz]

bors r=adityamaru,arulajmani

[craig]

Build succeeded:

• Bazel Essential CI (Cockroach)

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1. The backport branch might have already existed.
2. There was a merge conflict.
3. The backport branch contained merge commits.

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