fix: memoize getMenuProps for Multiselect and Filterable Multiselect

[riddhybansal]

Closes #16867
Closes #17021
Closes #17020

This PR does these primary things to Multiselect and Filterable Multiselect

1. Memoize the value of getMenuProps to avoid an infinite loop
2. Only apply floating ui refs when autoAlign={true}

The first fixes the problem for max depth call that results in infinite loop, the second is an indirect improvement. If the refs had initially been guarded, this bug would've been isolated to users using autoAlign. Because the refs were not guarded, the bug was present for everyone regardless of if autoAlign was being used.

This PR also verifies if the refs of components - popover, tooltip, dropdown, are guarded with autoalign prop.

Changelog

Changed

• Wrap getMenuProps in useMemo to multiselect and filterable multiselect
• Conditionally apply or verify refs in multiselect , filterable multiselect , popover, tooltip, dropdown

Testing / Reviewing

• Go to the default multiselect story. Type super fast - like just totally spam the keyboard. The component should not error
• Do the same on the with experimental autoalign multiselect story
• Ensure autoAlign works as expected on multiselect by resizing the browser window, playing with scroll, and opening/closing the listbox
• Do the same for filterable multiselect.

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[2nikhiltom]

Looks good to me 💯

[preetibansalui]

LGTM