feat(useExhaustiveDependencies): add option to useExhaustiveDependencies to enable errors when the dependencies array is missing

[simon-paris]

Continuation of #630. Makes the behaviour disabled here optional.

Summary

Adds an option reportMissingDependenciesArray to catch extra re-renders caused by missing dependency arrays.

// this config
"useExhaustiveDependencies": {
  "reportMissingDependenciesArray": true,
}

// causes this to be an error
function ReportMissingDependenciesArray() {
    const [a] = useState("hello");
    useEffect(() => {
        console.log(a); // <- runs every render
    });
    return <div/>;
}

Also added changelog entry for this and for #630.

Test Plan

A unit test is added

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #4149 will improve performances by 56.35%

_{Comparing simon-paris:feat/use-exhaustive-dependencies-missing-deps-array-2 (321c153) with main (7e29f06)}

Summary

⚡ 1 improvements
✅ 104 untouched benchmarks

Benchmarks breakdown

	Benchmark	main	simon-paris:feat/use-exhaustive-dependencies-missing-deps-array-2	Change
⚡	big5-added_15586211152145260264.json[uncached]	857.7 µs	548.6 µs	+56.35%

[arendjr]

Thank you!