feat: add py_wheel.compress to control using compression

[keith]

This is useful for development where, for large wheels, a significant
portion of the time can be spent compression native binaries

Fixes #2240

[rickeylev]

I was going to ask for it to be an int attribute, but after zipping up some shared libraries to see how compression affects them, I'm not so sure:

• 1, 2, 3, 4: about 57%, 58%, 58.5%, 59%
• 5 and higher: about 60%

So a bool seems about equivalent.

I posted in our maintainer chat to see if anyone feels strongly about it being an int instead. They're probably into their weekend by now, though, so we'll give them until monday to respond.

[rickeylev]

Please update CHANGELOG.md to note the new feature.

Otherwise pretty much LGTM

[keith]

pushed the changelog, any feedback from folks on the bool vs int?

[rickeylev]

There was a mild preference for int, but not strong opinions. Worst case, we can add a compress_level arg.