test: fix test-net-connect-reset-until-connected

Fixes: nodejs#43446

test/parallel/parallel.status

@@ -31,8 +31,6 @@ test-crypto-dh-stateless: SKIP
 test-crypto-keygen: SKIP
 
 [$system==solaris] # Also applies to SmartOS
-# https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/43446
-test-net-connect-reset-until-connected: PASS, FLAKY
 # https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/43457
 test-domain-no-error-handler-abort-on-uncaught-0: PASS, FLAKY
 test-domain-no-error-handler-abort-on-uncaught-1: PASS,FLAKY
@@ -52,8 +50,6 @@ test-domain-with-abort-on-uncaught-exception: PASS, FLAKY
 test-fs-stat-bigint: PASS,FLAKY
 # https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31280
 test-worker-message-port-message-before-close: PASS,FLAKY
-# https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/43446
-test-net-connect-reset-until-connected: PASS, FLAKY
 
 [$system==ibmi]
 # https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30819

test/parallel/test-net-connect-reset-until-connected.js

@@ -3,18 +3,27 @@
 const common = require('../common');
 const net = require('net');
 
+function barrier(count, cb) {
+  return function() {
+    if (--count === 0)
+      cb();
+  };
+}
+
 const server = net.createServer();
 server.listen(0, common.mustCall(function() {
   const port = server.address().port;
   const conn = net.createConnection(port);
+  const connok = barrier(2, () => conn.resetAndDestroy());
   conn.on('close', common.mustCall());
   server.on('connection', (socket) => {
+    connok();
     socket.on('error', common.expectsError({
       code: 'ECONNRESET',
       message: 'read ECONNRESET',
       name: 'Error'
     }));
     server.close();
   });
-  conn.resetAndDestroy();
+  conn.on('connect', connok);
 }));