Allow easy switching between repo version of bee and versioned lando installed bee

[yorkshire-pudding]

Lando machine must be destroyed if switching from versioned to local. This is because while the lando/backdrop plugin will clear out the bee folders if bee !== false , it won't do anything if bee: false

Small tweak to the lando recipe will allow to switch between different versions using:
lando rebuild -y
Rather than:
lando destroy -y && lando start