feat: Spark benchmarks update to 3.5.3

[vara-bonthu]

What does this PR do?

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• Spark Benchmarks scripts updated to use latest Spark version 3.5.3

• Added new Spark Benchmark Dockerfile with latest libs

• Added new managed node group for running benchmarks with graviton

• Added new new nodepool for running benchmarks with graviton

• Updated Spark Operator version, Karpenter addon, Karpenter resources, data addons repo

• Fixed few issues with Llama3.1 405b model

• Pre-commit updates to readme files

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Additional Notes

[ratnopamc]

lgtm.

[alanty]

Minor notes and such but LGTM. Thanks for taking on that spark image 🙌

This looks to supersede #673 so we can close that one out when this is merged.