Add support for multiple hosts configuration

[mirromutth]

Motivation:

Support for multiple hosts configuration.

Resolves #89

It also resolves #255 because if the user uses multiple hosts we have to resolve the hostname and port ourselves

Modification:

• Refactor host/unixSocket and add addHost to configure multiple hosts
• Allow to use Mono.zip for user and password, because we have to receive and cache credential before we try to connect to multiple hosts
• Add multiple hosts connection strategy
• Add HA protocol support for multiple hosts
• Allow to use DNS SRV records for HA protocol, like r2dbc:mysql+srv:loadbalance://my-db-1,my-db-2/test
• Add autoReconnect/maxReconnects support, FailoverClient
• Add failover events support and description
• Add reconnection strategy
• Add get back to primary host for default HA protocol, queriesBeforeRetrySource and secondsBeforeRetrySource

User can only configure one of:

• host/port for a single host
• addHost for multiple hosts, it will be auto-converted from ConnectionFactoryOptions.HOST
• unixSocket for Unix Domain Socket.

Result:

Support multiple hosts configuration with HA protocol.

Support DNS SRV Records for HA protocol.

[mirromutth]

@jchrys It is going to be a big feature, so I will mark it to 1.2.0

[rahulforeleven]

Thank you for working on the multiple hosts support feature! I see this is still in draft—could you share any updates on when it might be available in an upcoming release? This functionality would be incredibly valuable for us. Thanks!"