exposing topologySpreadConstraints on the helm chart (#3892)

This allows users to set `topologySpreadConstraints` which can be used
to more evenly spread pods out over nodes/AZs/etc. and prevent uneven
utilization of federation pods.

Fixes #3891

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Co-authored-by: Gary Pennington <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Gary Pennington <[email protected]>

.changesets/feat_expose_topology_spread_constraints.md

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+### Expose the ability to set topology spread constraints on the helm chart ([3891](https://github.com/apollographql/router/issues/3891))
+
+Give developers the ability to set topology spread constraints that can be used to guarantee that federation pods are spread out evenly across AZs.
+
+By [bjoern](https://github.com/bjoernw) in https://github.com/apollographql/router/pull/3892

helm/chart/router/templates/deployment.yaml

@@ -162,3 +162,7 @@ spec:
       {{- if .Values.terminationGracePeriodSeconds }}
       terminationGracePeriodSeconds: {{ .Values.terminationGracePeriodSeconds }}
       {{- end }}
+      {{- with .Values.topologySpreadConstraints }}
+      topologySpreadConstraints:
+        {{- toYaml . | nindent 8 }}
+      {{- end }}

helm/chart/router/values.yaml

@@ -232,3 +232,6 @@ probes:
   # -- Configure liveness probe
   liveness:
     initialDelaySeconds: 0
+
+# -- Sets the [topology spread constraints](https://kubernetes.io/docs/concepts/scheduling-eviction/topology-spread-constraints/) for Deployment pods
+topologySpreadConstraints: []