SOLR-17352: Backport removal of deprecated options for auth command (#2858)

[malliaridis]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SOLR-17352

Description

This PR backports the changes from #2858.

Solution

Additionally to the changes from #2858 this also updates the outdated --solr.home param in the output of bin/solr.cmd start --help.

Tests

Manually tested the presence of the bug and the fix by running bin/solr.cmd auth enable -s http://localhost:8983 --prompt true on a running instance (cloud mode).

Checklist

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[epugh]

LGTM