Support Mysql row and column aliases with ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE

[TherChenYang]

Fixes #30972.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Support Mysql row and column aliases with ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE

SQL Case

INSERT INTO t SET a=9,b=5 AS new(m,n) 
ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE a=m+n

INSERT INTO t1 SET a=1,b=2,c=3 AS new(m,n,p)
  ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE c = m+n

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[strongduanmu]

LGTM, merged.