Support exclude fastjson2 or hessian2 serialization dependencies

[AlbumenJ]

What is the purpose of the change

• When exclude fastjson2 or hessian2 on runtime, ClassNotFound exception will occurred when init
• Should failed serialization when load extensions, due to prefer serialzation will depend on it.
• Integration test cases: Add test cases to verify apache/dubbo#13441 dubbo-samples#1028

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Comparison is base (8ac2eaa) 69.47% compared to head (2e6d8ca) 69.45%.
Report is 9 commits behind head on 3.2.

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Kudos, SonarCloud Quality Gate passed!   

0 Bugs
0 Vulnerabilities
0 Security Hotspots
8 Code Smells

56.1% Coverage
0.0% Duplication

[AlbumenJ]

@CrazyHZM @chickenlj PTAL

[CrazyHZM]

LGTM