Bump io.grpc:grpc-netty-shaded from 1.57.2 to 1.65.1 (#16731)

Bumps [io.grpc:grpc-netty-shaded](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-java) from 1.57.2 to 1.65.1.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-java/releases)
- [Commits](grpc/grpc-java@v1.57.2...v1.65.1)

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updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: io.grpc:grpc-netty-shaded
  dependency-type: direct:production
  update-type: version-update:semver-minor
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extensions-contrib/opentelemetry-emitter/pom.xml

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@
     <!-- These guava and grpc versions are used only in the opentelemetry-extension.
       Look at build section for more details about shading. -->
     <shade.guava.version>32.0.1-jre</shade.guava.version>
-    <shade.grpc.version>1.57.2</shade.grpc.version>
+    <shade.grpc.version>1.65.1</shade.grpc.version>
   </properties>
   <dependencyManagement>
     <dependencies>