Support user defined `ParquetAccessPlan` in `ParquetExec`, validation to `ParquetAccessPlan::select` #27717

Job	Run time
cargo test (macos)	8m 34s
cargo check	4m 10s
Check cargo fmt	35s
build with wasm-pack	2m 1s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	18m 43s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	6m 41s
Verify Vendored Code	42s
cargo test (win64)	33m 9s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	3m 54s
cargo examples (amd64)	12m 11s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	8m 37s
clippy	5m 1s
cargo doc	3m 18s
cargo test (amd64)	9m 41s
cargo test doc (amd64)	12m 38s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 11s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 41s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	10m 42s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 40s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 39s
	2h 31m 48s

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