Update sqlparser requirement from 0.40.0 to 0.41.0 #21606

Job	Run time
cargo check	5m 1s
build with wasm-pack	1m 55s
cargo test (mac)	12m 36s
cargo test (win64)	3h 10m 54s
Check cargo fmt	41s
Verify MSRV	6m 19s
Verify Vendored Code	45s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	2m 57s
cargo test (amd64)	8m 53s
cargo test doc (amd64)	9m 32s
cargo doc	3m 11s
clippy	4m 2s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	8m 39s
cargo examples (amd64)	6m 28s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 5s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 13s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	9m 32s
check Cargo.toml formatting	1m 21s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 10s
	4h 40m 14s

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