Add partial serde support for ParquetWriterOptions #21440

Job	Run time
build with wasm-pack	1m 56s
cargo check	3m 6s
cargo test (mac)	23m 12s
Check cargo fmt	40s
Verify MSRV	6m 32s
Verify Vendored Code	47s
cargo test (win64)	27m 51s
cargo test (amd64)	9m 10s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	2m 58s
check Cargo.toml formatting	1m 20s
clippy	4m 15s
cargo doc	3m 10s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	8m 44s
cargo test doc (amd64)	9m 25s
cargo examples (amd64)	6m 36s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 12s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 4s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	9m 28s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 12s
	2h 6m 38s

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