Improve feedback for fix, avoid a traceback with transform

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When linting the following repo: https://github.com/anshulbehl/ilo-ansible-collection

If was found that if ANSIBLE_LINT_NODEPS was enabled to bypass the missing plugins and roles, the fixing of files would traceback and stop immediately.

This PR both improves the debug and error messages during fix as well as avoids the traceback so file processing can continue.

The messages were set as constants to limit tight coupling to messages in the tests.

Fixing may be able to be improved if further time was spent with the above repo in the future.

Note: The precommit ruff version was set to the latest to catch some errors found locally

Messages will now appear like this:

ERROR    Rule specific fix failed for: key-order/task roles/playbooks/UpdateService/update_firmware_through_install_set.yml:75
ERROR    'when'
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/bthornto/github/ansible-lint/src/ansiblelint/transformer.py", line 168, in _do_transforms
    match.rule.transform(match, file, data)
  File "/home/bthornto/github/ansible-lint/src/ansiblelint/rules/key_order.py", line 137, in transform
    task = task.pop(key)
                ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/bthornto/github/ansible-lint/venv/lib64/python3.12/site-packages/ruamel/yaml/comments.py", line 926, in pop
    result = self
             ~~~~^^^^^
  File "/home/bthornto/github/ansible-lint/venv/lib64/python3.12/site-packages/ruamel/yaml/comments.py", line 853, in __getitem__
    return ordereddict.__getitem__(self, key)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
KeyError: 'when'
ERROR    Please file an issue for this with the task or playbook that caused the error.