Don't include objc headers in exception.m

To fix cross compile issues (and also, it's faster to call objc_retain directly instead of using a selector)

extern/exception.m

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
-#include <objc/objc.h>
-#include <objc/NSObject.h>
+// Available from `objc`
+id objc_retain(id value);
 
 void RustObjCExceptionThrow(id exception) {
     @throw exception;
@@ -9,12 +9,12 @@ int RustObjCExceptionTryCatch(void (*try)(void *), void *context, id *error) {
     @try {
         try(context);
         if (error) {
-            *error = nil;
+            *error = (id)0; // nil
         }
         return 0;
     } @catch (id exception) {
         if (error) {
-            *error = [exception retain];
+            *error = objc_retain(exception);
         }
         return 1;
     }