Update build and build-raw commands to accept simple reference minting scripts

[Jimbo4350]

Closes: #4086

[catch-21]

For the following flags, consider rewording their description because:

1. it suggests the reference input doesn't need a reference script, but it definitely must have one to work.
2. It says "plutus" for all of them but some are simple scripts

--spending-tx-in-reference --simple-script-tx-in-reference --simple-minting-script-tx-in-reference --mint-tx-in-reference --certificate-tx-in-reference --withdrawal-tx-in-reference

TxId#TxIx - Specify a reference input. The reference
input may or may not have a plutus reference script
attached.

[JaredCorduan]

LGTM!

[Jimbo4350]

bors r+

[iohk-bors]

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