Optimize insert/upsert/delete by using get_node_by_key

[emlowe]

Simplify and optimize insert/upsert/delete (and therefore batch_update) by leveraging the newly optimized get_node_by_key instead of querying all the key, value pairs from the DB

This simplifies a bunch of code by eliminating the key,value hint dictionary and removes some test runs that were parameterized on that hint option

[coveralls-official]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 8389041888

Details

• 42 of 45 (93.33%) changed or added relevant lines in 3 files are covered.
• 26 unchanged lines in 14 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage increased (+0.005%) to 90.829%

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Changes Missing Coverage	Covered Lines	Changed/Added Lines	%
chia/data_layer/util/benchmark.py	0	3	0.0%

Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
chia/_tests/simulation/test_simulation.py	1	96.52%
chia/full_node/full_node_api.py	1	79.32%
chia/data_layer/util/benchmark.py	1	0.0%
chia/server/node_discovery.py	1	80.85%
chia/rpc/wallet_rpc_api.py	1	89.2%
chia/introducer/introducer.py	1	78.26%
chia/_tests/core/util/test_file_keyring_synchronization.py	1	97.1%
chia/_tests/core/util/test_lockfile.py	2	90.69%
chia/full_node/weight_proof.py	2	90.73%
chia/farmer/farmer_api.py	2	94.4%

Totals
Change from base Build 8378992295:	0.005%
Covered Lines:	97374
Relevant Lines:	107183

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[github-actions]

File	Coverage	Missing Lines
chia/data_layer/util/benchmark.py	0.0%	lines 9, 72, 89

Total	Missing	Coverage
45 lines	3 lines	93%

[altendky]

quite a lot simpler, thanks!