add hosts to be highlighted in deployment chapters

[wey-gu]

This behavior change would confuse fresh or even experienced upgrade users.

• Docker Compose deployment via ADD HOSTS in docker deployment #1514
• Binary Package
• Complie
• K8s is not yet relevant now as operator is not supporting 3.0 yet
• service start

[SuperYoko]

GJ!

Confirmed with developer, storaged should not start service until is added into cluster so that after starting all service.
Storage port will be red blink after users type "... status storage/all", which is confusing and stops user from trying nebula.

Maybe we should add enough notice to allow new user to avoid this. For example:

Add notice of storage status at deployment/quick start.

And I'll add a warning message in status scripts.

[abby-cyber]

A note has been added in the "manage services" doc #1618 #1619 #1620
Thanks for your feedback and suggestions.