Add a check for handling updates to existing fields to increase the maximums

[rashmigottipati]

This builds on top of #666 and focuses on adding a valid check to ensure that maximums can be increased for existing fields in a CustomResourceDefinition schema.

If the proposal for adding this functionality to carvel-dev/kapp has been accepted prior to starting this work, all changes should be made against carvel-dev/kapp, otherwise the changes should be made against https://github.com/everettraven/kapp/tree/feature/crd-upgrade-safety-preflight

[everettraven]

The proposal merged and work is now being tracked in carvel-dev/kapp. This is now a tracker for carvel-dev/kapp#914

[rashmigottipati]

PR created in kapp upstream: carvel-dev/kapp#951

[rashmigottipati]

Closing as completed as PR merged in kapp: carvel-dev/kapp#951