feat: Support conforming singer property names to target identifier constraints in SQL sinks

[kgpayne]

Closes #1021

• feat: Support column name conforming #1021

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[kgpayne]

@aaronsteers @edgarrmondragon here is my first-pass attempt at column name conforming. The new "SampleTapHostile" tests are passing, and I think cover most of the common DBMS identifier constraints. Let me know what you think of the overall approach, and if there are other test cases worth adding 👍

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Codecov Report

Merging #1039 (0d7c431) into main (2721dc5) will increase coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 91.00%.

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