fix: hideColumnByIds wasn't hiding columns properly

[ghiscoding]

tested a bit more after previous PR #1736 and found couple of small issues

• calling hideColumnByIds() for multiple columns wasn't working correctly
• also the options hideFromColumnPicker and hideFromGridMenu were incorrectly tied together meaning that when hideFromColumnPicker was enabled, it was also hiding them in the GridMenu as well which is wrong
• lastly I've done a refactor to remove duplicate code of calling some grid commands when options autoResizeColumns and triggerEvent are enabled.

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