Replace assertions with error macros

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There are some places in Datafusion doing assertions which leads the application to crash. Its better to replace assertions with error wherever possible

Example: assert_eq! here to keep it consistent with other implementations of GroupsAccumulator. Eg. see here among others:
https://github.com/apache/datafusion/blob/main/datafusion/physical-expr/src/aggregate/groups_accumulator/prim_op.rs?plain=1#L93

Originally posted by @lkt in #10149 (comment)