Some more inconsistency between can_cast_types and cast_with_options

[viirya]

Describe the bug

There are more inconsistency between can_cast_types and cast_with_options that is cast_with_options can cast but can_cast_types reports false.

For example,

1. Casting from Dictionary of Integer to DecimalArray

thread 'test_can_cast_types' panicked at 'Was able to cast array DictionaryArray {keys: PrimitiveArray<Int8>
[
  0,
  1,
] values: PrimitiveArray<Int32>
[
  1,
  2,
]}
 from Dictionary(Int8, Int32) to Decimal128(38, 0) but can_cast_types reported false', arrow/tests/array_cast.rs:83:21

2. Casting from List of some type (e.g., Integer) to Dictionary of Utf8

thread 'test_can_cast_types' panicked at 'Was not able to cast array ListArray
[
  PrimitiveArray<Int32>
[
  0,
  1,
  2,
],
  PrimitiveArray<Int32>
[
  3,
  4,
  5,
],
  PrimitiveArray<Int32>
[
  6,
  7,
],
] from List(Field { name: "item", data_type: Int32, nullable: true, dict_id: 0, dict_is_ordered: false, metadata: {} }) to Dictionary(Int16, Utf8) but can_cast_types reported true. Error was CastError("Cannot cast list to non-list data types")', arrow/tests/array_cast.rs:87:21

To Reproduce

Expected behavior

Additional context

[alamb]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'arrow'} from #3238