Connection sting abbreviation support

[lyndonbauto]

The current connection string options match the sql-jdbc driver.

ODBC Drivers very often use 'server' instead of 'host', 'UID' instead of 'user', and 'PWD' instead of 'password' in connection strings.

Adding support for this would be beneficial for users who are used to ODBC style connection strings. We can still leave our registry writing and registry files using 'host', 'user', and 'password'.