Make Refuel capabilities dynamic

[jonpas]

Entails:

• Dynamic interaction adding on init
• Ability to set any vehicle as rearm/refuel vehicle easily (config and run-time)
• Proper API for 3rd party mods adding rearm/refuel via simple config entries (currently have to copy all actions, which is just a mess)
• Follow Repair component way of doing it

[kymckay]

Ability to set any vehicle as rearm/refuel vehicle easily (config and run-time)

For this point see #4780, I think all of the components that do this sort of publicly adjustable vehicle properties (for mission makers) combined with config properties (for addon makers) should be handling them in relatively the same manner. I have no idea what is the ideal way to do so, in that PR I just made it work based on the existing code 😆

[jonpas]

Sure, I mainly opened this this because I wanted to do this for a long time but just don't find the time and will to do it.

[jonpas]

Done for Rearm component in #5183.